1.23 Host Family

 I'm sure this surprised my parents. My housemate,Gabi is going to move other host family and change school a few weeks later. It made me disappointed. About 2 month ago she said she was going to change host family, but she wasn't because of me. I was happy. However she can't stand my host mom and school any more. Last Monday she told me she is going to chsnge. She told her about it last Wednesday. She was upset and kinda mad why Gabi had never talked with her. 

 The biggest reason Gabi dicided to move is our host mom's personality, but on Saturday when my host mom came to Gabi's room to talk with her, Gabi told her like "It's because of school, I feel alone in the school, there are no Brazilian. That's why I wanna change and if I go to Vanier(other school), it's far from here. So I have to change host family too." Gabi didn't say anything to her like what my host mom does wrong for Gabi. Actually she can take a bus to Vanier. My host mom understands why Gabi wants to change school, but she doesn't get it why Gabi wants to change host family. But Gabi didn't tell her true things because she wants to leave wisout fighting with them. My host mom started to cry and she was disappointed and still comfused. 

What she don't like about her are many things. For example, Gabi feels she hosts us to get money. When we go to a eating place like donates shop, our host hostfamily don't pay us. Most of other international students don't pey for food, their host family pay. And my host mom sometimes points out our faults as a teacher. 

 I also can't think my host mom is perfect, but I think no one is perfect and feeling sometimes not good when we live with someone is normal thing because we have each personality. So we can say what we want and change it better.

 Gabi thinks she always has to be a good girl in front of our host family, so she doesn't be honest. I think she is sometimes able to be a goofy person and cry and say something how she feels honestly in front of them. That's why when she is pointed out her faults by host mom, she  gets mad at her.

 I'm sad and kind of frustrated. Gabi is happy now, but she made us sad. I know my host family loved her so much. She has to think about other people more before deciding big something.